Friday, 14 February 2014

Top Intimacy tip for men: Active Receptivity


Hi Guys,

This short little post contains a golden nugget of information just for you.

I hope it will be a valuable reminder during intimacy with a loving partner and throughout your daily life together when the intensity of her feelings could be overwhelming...
  • I want to introduce you to this friend of mine. He is called: Active Receptivity.
  • Active Receptivity is you consciously allowing yourself the pleasure of receiving Love.
  • It is not you pretending to receive by becoming passive.
  • It is not you pretending to receive by waiting for your turn.
  • It is not you enduring your partners touch while you figure out your next move.
  • It is about surrendering control of your experience.
  • It is about you staying involved in your experience. Your control comes in the form of your permission to allow yourself to receive. This is where you are active.
  • This can be a meditation. It can be a daily practice. It allows you to be at choice in your experience.
  • To be loved can be a frightening thing. We can close ourselves off, fight for our space within it, push people away. Basically, struggle for control. If we feel love from our partners presence, Active Receptivity is a way to consent to having that present in our life.
  • So, stay present, breathe and take a bath in love.  And notice what happens to your interaction with your beloved when you do. Enjoy.
Be your best,
D.L.
  • PS For more on 'Deep Intimacy', see my post: Sex Magick
"Very good news for wankers everywhere..! -
Dr. Deborah Anapol, author The Seven
Natural Laws of Love

Diamond Lotus is a sex-positive erotic explorer, educator, and author. Currently training as a teacher of Pelvic-Heart Integration, Diamond is passionate about promoting healthy models of intimate relating for young, straight men.



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