Hi Guys,
I am of the belief that attraction occurs
between open hearts. Openhearted people are like magnets; automatically we are
drawn to them, even if we are cynical or not. Sexual attraction works the same way. Open
hearts first. When we are attracted to another, sexually, we come together
seemingly seamlessly. Sexual contact is a natural result as those magnetic
currents draw us ever closer and eventually combine. A wave, they naturally gravitate together then recede
and, ideally but not always, continue to oscillate in this pendulum effect;
close enough to remain a double-headed unit in evolutionary, familial, paternal
terms.
My point though is about the openhearted.
Sometimes openhearted people attract others and are articulate about their boundaries and
consent regarding that natural impulse to bond, mate and partner without
closing down. Done in isolation, this can increase their desirability, but if received with an open heart, it results in immediate satiation and satisfaction. I
speak here as the receiver. Done as part of an openhearted community or
gathering there is almost no sense of rejection or castigation. Sure, we may
feel a pang or two, but it’s not personal, nor does it come from an immature
place of weakness or fear. In actual fact, this sex-positive approach nourishes us to take responsibility for our desire and sexual expression.
Thus
openhearted living actually provides us with what we all crave –
boundless love and acceptance, with occasional, wonderful, fully consented
sexual encounters.
