A journey to sexual wellness and fullness...

Hi Guys,

As you may be aware from my previous post, I am embarking on another 30-Days of self-pleasuring, following the Mindful Masturbation Meditation structure given by Dr. Joseph Kramer in his Yoga of Sex course, and which I write about in my book "W@nker!"

I am about to complete my first week of practice, and I can tell you now that my journey is revealing itself as a journey to and from the Heart. I know that might sound a bit New Age-y for some of you, but really, it is. Despite the fact that I am taking this meditation as an opportunity to improve my strength and fitness by swimming three times as week and dancing twice a week, alongside the erotic practice, it is my heart that is really revealing itself to be the kingpin of my arousal.

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Hi Guys,

As I mentioned in my last post, I have decided to undertake another 30-Days of Mindful Masturbation Meditation. I've gotten into some unsatisfactory habits of late, so I'm making the time to look after myself and engage in this period of mindful re-training.

I'll be following the structure and guidance given in my book, "W@nker!" and putting up a daily report on a this page here. Please follow me if you are curious about the transformative effect of this wonderful erotic practice. I'm not likely to respond to questions or comments, but if it inspires you, by all means buy the book, do the practice and experience profound bliss and empowerment for yourself!

The link is here once again.

Be Your Best,
D.L.

"Very good news for wankers everywhere..! -

Dr. Deborah Anapol, author The SevenNatural Laws of Love

Diamond Lotus is a sex-positive erotic explorer, educator, and author. A Pelvic-Heart Integration facilitator, Diamond is passionate about promoting healthy models of intimate relating for young, straight men.

The Blind Man and the Mirage

Hi Guys,

In this amazing online world that we live in, I wonder how much of this story applies to you? How many of us live as the Blind Man, either intentionally or not? How many of us have become so invested in the Mirage that real intimacy evades us? I for one have been experiencing this in recent weeks, so I felt obliged to write about it for you. Here's the story of The Blind Man and the Mirage...

The Blind Man sees only 50% of the population; the women and girls. He is blind to the men. They are invisible to him, except when they get in the way of the female he is attracted to. I'm convinced most of us guys live like this. Why? Because we are invested in the Mirage.