What women want in a man.

Kali!

For you, women and the planet

• (Sounds dramatic doesn't it? Yes, intimacy really does extend to the planet, maybe further).

• Now, what do women want? Or should I say, what can we guys prepare ourselves for as both sexes step more into their power?
• KALI!
• 'Kali' is one of the female gods in Hinduism. Think of her as 'the destroyer of bullshit'. Both women and men have her qualities inside. 
• If you've ever seen a woman in childbirth swear her head off, and tell you to stop fucking about, this is the Kali power. The same is possible in a deep orgasm.
• Kali is to be feared only if you are not solid in your masculine presence (which is why I emphasize it so much). Kali will, metaphorically, cut your head off if you bullshit her.
• So, what do women (and men) want? They want someone who can handle their Kali energy. They want to feel safe enough to let her go, to let her come out and express herself. 
• Most women (and men) live with a feeling of some great untouched power inside themselves; secretly telling themselves the story that 'people can't handle me', or carrying the fear of 'losing themselves; becoming overwhelmed'. This is an unhealthy attitude to Kali energy. 
• Kali energy is very empowering.
• Kali energy is to be honored and respected.
• Kali energy comes from feeling safe and supported by the masculine (not, necessarily, the male, because they are different). 
• Kali is compassion.
• Kali energy is connected to, and can be safely explored during, orgasm.
• If your woman can go to and express her Kali energy with you (and vice-versa) this is a wonderful, deeply intimate expression of love. Allow it. It is not a personal attack.
• If she doesn't, be sure part of her wants to. Make deep intimacy your commitment.
• Note: Men be prepared. Do the work on yourself; know your healthy masculine and feminine. Globally, more and more women are stepping into their power. They are remembering their Kali power and she knows what you have done to her. The injustices that mankind has inflicted on women over millenia is being exposed and destroyed. You have a responsibility and a history with that. Be prepared to take her attack, and give your head willingly if you have stepped out of your power. See her. Hear her. Know your weaknesses and resolve to make them better. 
• And breathe!
• For more on 'Masculine and Feminine', see: An image of the Masculine & Feminine

Be your best,
D.L.

"Brilliant" - Dr. Joseph Kramer

Diamond Lotus is a sex-positive erotic explorer, educator, and author. Currently training as a teacher of Pelvic-Heart Integration, Diamond is passionate about promoting healthy models of intimate relating for young, straight men.