Hi Guys, this one is for you (and your pleasure-seeking bottom!)
- Think for a moment, why do you masturbate?
- What is it that encourages you to entertain the idea of grabbing your cock for pleasure?
- In times of comfort, need, separation, and unrest, the yang cock can be an attractive draw, because masturbation/ self-touch here can bring about a momentary sense of connection.
- A feeling of connection. That's what it's about really, isn't it?
- So to deepen and extend this sensation, to be able to carry this sensation with you rather than squirt it out at the moment of ejaculation, I suggest what is needed is a gentle and sensitive touch and a finger inside the more nurturing yin anus.
- Here there is more opportunity for you to open up - literally and metaphysically - to your chaotic existence/ experience, and to find peace and relaxation within it.
- Touch and stimulation on your yang-penis ought to be a wholly secondary sensation to those in your asshole at such times; a means to increase the mutual pleasure of the two organs combined.
- Not as a counter-charge that fills the body with 'false' chemicals which dissipate after ejaculation.
- A finger in the bum is also a great way to delay ejaculation, as the necessary clenching of muscles does not fully occur.
- Practise gently. Savour. Enjoy.
- For more on 'Anal Play' see: anal-play-for-self-love.
Be your best,
D.L.
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| "Very good news for wankers everywhere..! - Dr. Deborah Anapol, author The Seven Natural Laws of Love |
Diamond Lotus is a sex-positive erotic explorer, educator, and author. Currently training as a teacher of Pelvic-Heart Integration, Diamond is passionate about promoting healthy models of intimate relating for young, straight men.


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